On Pastors And Abuse

While I agree that there are many pastors who are selfish and self centered with no iota of care, concern and compassion for their members and for the general well being of the world at large, I still know a few who are the direct opposite of those described.
 
I know some who would NEVER encourage a woman to continue living and being with a man who verbally, physically, emotionally and sexually abuses her.

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Abuse Is Not An Option

Dear Tiger,
Good day. How fareth thou?

today I am angry. Angry at what the world is turning into. Angry at what many are advocating to be right. Angry at how many gullible women will believe this bullcrap and still choose to be with a man who abuses her.

Credits: Google

Credits: Google

Tiger Mi, I’m grateful to God that abuse is not tied to your loins and does not flow in your DNA but any day, anybody tries to hang it over your neck as a beautiful neck piece, you have to decide ON YOUR OWN to run for your dear life.
That person wants to ruin your life and lead you faster towards your death -both physically and all other -allies.

If they say standing firm to be at the receiving end of abuse is what makes me a TRUE AFRICAN WOMAN, See on this particular case, I refuse to be a real black woman, I choose the fakest of all the fakes. I CHOOSE TO BE ANY OTHER COLOUR THAT ABHORS AND FIGHTS AGAINST ABUSE.

Dear Tiger, do you know that men like this are roaming the streets of the world, thus we have to start early to teach our daughters the need to be wary of such men and also train our sons to steer clear from this path that leads headlong into destruction.

Mine, the job and responbililty ahead of us is massive, so you see why we will not take chances in training our children neither are we leaving them to be trained by any other person outside of me and you – not even our parents.

Since it was me and you alone that hit the sheets when the royal rumble that birthed those children took place, therefore the responsibility to show them the right path is laid massively on me and you. I’m sure you knew this before you came to say the “let’s change world together”, lines.

Ehen, back to me and you, I am a good wife and will always be a good wife, I am submissive to you and will always be when I know you are not leading me astray but one thing that my goodness will be accept is you EVER raising your hands to prove your MANHOOD. mba!fb_img_1475544116759

Even my submissiveness will not submit to that one. Remember me and you are equal stakeholders in the beautiful marriage we are building, we are partners in love and partners in the frontiers of the empires we want to build, any day you attempt to think of abuse, always remember that men too can be abuse and the tendency to abuse a fellow human being is in every one of us, just that some of us have chosen not to be abusers.

Here again, I reiterate my unflinching and unquestionable love for you.
Thank you for loving me too.

Yours Always
Tigress