Good evening my chocolate dipped in strawberry and vanilla, how are you? I am fine too, just been thinking about a lot of things. I just thought it nice to bring this one to your notice.
Tiger Mi, I am confused about a lot of things but this one confused me all the more. Do you know there are men who are planning their marriage but cannot take a single decision without either running to their mother or to their pastors for a go ahead?
See, I believe a man, even a woman should have gotten to a point in their lives when they should have a say over their own lives.
I believe many of them are scared of taking responsibility for their actions so they would rather roll the stone over.
Mine, how will a young man, run to his mum to ask her if he should buy a white boxer or a black one?
How will he run to his pastor to ask him/her if he should wear a red shirt or a navy blue shirt?
All this things shock and annoy me. I say it every day that marriage is not for those who think their age has climbed the ladder so high, thus the only thing needed is to find one unsuspecting, one undiscerning girl and marry her. Just to end up quarreling on their honeymoon night because he picked up his phone to ask is mother and pastor if he should sleep with his wife.
My Jewel, see I am not exaggerating, if you think I am, turn, see that man behind you. Well, I didn’t say he is one of them, I just wanted you to take your eyes away from the phone or PC for a moment.
We have a responsibility. A responsibility so massive yet so important. We need to be ready to train our children so they do not fall into this flock of immature bunch.
Tiger Mi, we will train our sons and our daughters too that they should be ready to take decisions whether or not we are available.
We will train our children to know that it is totally irresponsible for them to come taking permission before they brush their mouth.
Paddy of life, I am joyed, in fact really overjoyed that you are an exception. I am super excited that you are that rare creation that seems to be going into extinction but you escaped and came my way. I appreciate your effort. I appreciate your maturity. And trust me, you are going places.